What's the feeling when someone who is aware that he will be a father soon in the first time? This turely is an intriguing question. If memory services me right, in the year 2009, the new arrivals in Taiwan were fewer than 200,000. The result from that instance are: 1, A part of new couples whose consider that their income are not more enough for the life themselive, not to mention to have baby. 2, Some new couples whose are not come from rich family, and worry that they can not give the good education to their next generation, in this case, they decided they won't have baby. 3, Some Taiwanese girls whose got good-educated and take care about their body shape, they turely knew that it is possable to be the one of fat women it have baby, and try any possable way to prevent the spermatozoon of their husband smuggle into their womb. There are so many reasons that the new couples of Taiwanese don't want have baby, and abovementioned I just name a few. This phenomena, the government consider that if it is abidingly, ten years later, the population of Taiwan probably fewer than 20,000,000. And much worse, the proportion of senior citizens will higher than youth. That will become a big obstruction for development to our Nation. For this population crisis, the government try any possible way to resolve htis low birthrate phenomena and elevate the inclination to be a father or mother for new couples, such as any new infant can get NT$5,000 every year untill the infant grow up to age 18; and maybe the legislators will soon pass the law that free education from kinderagrten to university with free nutrient lunch... Suddenly, I am aware that seens I was talk too much, and the content had no any relation with the title. Because the title is: What's the feeling when someone who is aware that he will be a father soon in the first time? I am not yet get married, and have no girlfriend now, not to mention about being a father. For this question, I need to use some imagination if want to answer it. Maybe I will feel a little happy, and than consider that is the baby will looks much more like his/ her mother or I? and will the eyes of him/ her will so big and twinkling just like a numen? The transpicuous responsibility that I con't seeing it, cannot touch it, but I will feel that it is comeing on me, and of course, I need to face it, and accept this... challenge... I am still single now, for this question, that's all I could have image in my mind. How about you? Would you like try to answer this question? Or, you already had this kind of experience, willing share it to me? -- 必有一得。 --

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