who cares? Build up your own philosophy and get rid of others' opinion. Insist your way of life. Get rid of this Iron Cage of cultural pressure which is unnecessary and idiotic. I know it's a hard struggle, but please be confident. You deserve a happy life you want. Whatever, and whichever you choose. No one can judge you. Whether you want to marry or not, it's up to you and your own choice. As long as you are not hurting others, those opinions are merely gossip and idiotic. Who can understand your situation and feelings better than yourself? Are you sure marrying the wrong guy will be better than remaining single? ※ 引述《DukeQ (Ｑ公爵)》之銘言： : I had a very bad temper this week, because of my Dad. : He thought that I'm a very old "girl", : thirty years old, not married, it's a big deal! : This Moon Festival I stay at home by myself. : Thinking about "happiness", which easy to spell, hard to get. : But marriage is not the only way to happiness! : I'm not very sure if I will regret someday. : But I'm fine to be a single lady now. : Why people judged the value of a woman by whom she married? : Why people thought it's a shame for a woman that : not married after thirty years old? --

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