I'm now in the third grade of university. Just as a normal person,i met lots of people during the past 20 years. And i want to share some point of view about keeping friends. Can you remember your best friend in elementary school, or in high school? They may or may not still be your best friend now. However,that's fine and normal.We change our characteristic, values,or types little by little every day. Especially,when we get into a new circumstance,we meet new friends quickly. To manage your relationship,you should do couple of things. First,you should classify your friends.Some are acquaintances, some are sworn friends and some you can share the secrete and gossip to,some who you can only discuss school work with. Finally,dont forget your family members. They are not only your friends but the most important people to you. Second,think about what doest it mean to you between the differernt category,then you get your own attitude to them. Your attitude will decide the way to treat each category and your cant save lots of energy by avoiding unnecessary work. Last but not the least,note the birthday of your friends. Some old friends is one of your best ,but you may not have sufficient time to get in touch. His/Her birthday is a good chance to tell him/her you really miss him/her and still cherish the friendship with her. I think most of people would be appreciative your blessing. Well,there are still lots of things i would like to share but i think the article is long enough... So, thanks for reading and wish all of you have good relationship in your wonderful life. --

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