※ 引述《wnwangster (Wei)》之銘言： : I just can't keep quiet reading what I'm reading... sorry for the long read. : ※ 引述《YourDad (油袋)》之銘言： : : If you can't speak English well, : : then why you have to study in US? : You are making too much assumptions about OP's background, and quite frankly : it doesn't concern you where he/she decides (or even forced to) to study/live. : Would it be legitimate to ask you "If you can't be a decent man, boyfriend, : husband, or father, then why bother to exist at all? And who is it to judge : whether you are decent enough?" So what's your point in this section? Can't I suspect the reason he/she studying in US? You're really funny guy! Can't judge anyone is your point? : : Learning knowledge or skill that Taiwan no one knows? : : In fact , You sure you can learn it well? : Again, the negative comment is totally unnecessary. You sure you deserve : the position you hold at work? Of course you'll say you are... I hope. : No need to put down people like this. How can I put hime down if I know him nothing? Or you like to shit a guy whoes words doesn't good listening? Then what's the positive comment? Giving a dream? Being romantic ? Answer him/her like threating a child ? Ha~Just think about your age being~ I choose to face the reality and to give the true words. True words are hurt,usually. : : Or you just thought studying in foriegn country is pretty cool or a fad? : : But now you can't solve this "talking" problem ? : : Ha! That's ridiculous ~ : Sounds like someone is jealous... I can smell it from miles away. : It's your right not to value studying abroad as a good opportunity, but not : yours to determine for others. I wish someone who have talents or experiences that can make me jealous. I really mean it~ Do you have "any" can make me jealous? And according to my second section,I just expressed my viewpoint. Of course I know I can't determine for anyone, cause I'm just a outsider of this "talking" problem. : : Give you a pity and my suggestion: : : Just move back to Taiwan. : : Why? Because..... : : Here's a lot of people don't speak English well like you, : : and you can make a lot of friends here. : If by friends you mean people with your attitude, I'd rather sit in the US : and rot alone. : Basically, the rest of your bull, or perhaps its entirety, has no constructive : value and can be ignored altogether. I appreciat you spend much time to reply these bull seems you have interesting in it. And maybe you can also smell my dog's from miles away. Otherwise, I really thank for your "constructive" opinion down below. In my view,I just found a intro about some behavior that every elementary schools' student who did it in first school day and at first class. Isn't it a normal principle to the progress of learning everything? One guy who wants to study in foriegn country, he should consider the speaking problem deeply before he going, or it would be better to stay in his nation. But some people prefer to rot alone in US and confuse in English speaking. Whatever,it's their right.I just choose the better one I think. : : So,don't stay in US like a fool. : : Besides,if you just wanna have playing in US and pretend to being a student, : : and......I also give you an advise: Just have fun! : : Maybe you just took your parents' order, : : but truth is always undefeatable: : : Staying in US without English speaking ability is a stupid idea, : : still more studying in US ? : : I guess lonelyness is fill with your situation now. : : So come back, : : Taiwan is your home! : As for constructive suggestions to Fac, I'd say you'll just have to keep a real : low profile and humbly, but NOT shy, to ask your teacher, professor, and : helpful friends who will bother to listen to you. Trust me, there won't be : many, but the ones who do are really worthy to make friends with. : One thing that helps me to overcome the fear of speaking is to think the way I : speak Chinese. Why is it OK to make mistakes when I speak Chinese, and still : have no problem talking to others? : Know that the purpose of you learning English is only to talk, not to showcase : your grammatical skill nor your knowledge in the longest and hardest word in : the English language. : Learning a language takes time, and by submerging into an all-English : environment will only speed up the process, which is a good thing for you. : If you landed in the U.S. without knowing a single vocabulary, it'll only take : 2-3 years to be able to begin conversing with people for an average person. : If you are optimistic and see your studying abroad as a positive experience in : your life, you will learn to treasure the hardship you're encountering right : now. You'll be glad that you've endured the transitional period. Otherwise, : it would be a waste of time. It's all about attitude and only you can control : it. --

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