※ 引述《ohnomygod (renew)》之銘言： : i've quited the last job in Taichung , : and i come back to my hometown (chai-yi) : now i work in Chai-Yi ,but i really couldn't adapt the environment : i always tell myself i need to get used but it's really hard to accept : i feel so lonely and my coworkers all are very cold : i'm not happy and i don't know what should i do ? : if my life could be again ,i think i shouldn't so impluse : lots of things ,once happen it won't come back : try to overcome myself but it's the most difficult : could anyone give me some suggestion? i dont have that guts to give u advise or suggestion or something, but sharing some thought is within my compass. i wonder which part of ur life nearly ruined u and make u so unhappy.is it the matter of salary?the relationship with colleagues? or maybe the romance with ur girlfriend/boyfriend ? from the message u shared with us,allow me to reckon that the most bothering thing from ur view might be the co-workers problem because u told us that u r very lonely but ur colleagues are damn cold and grim! sadly,almost everyone in this society is cold toward other. u may find someone not that cold in church,but i daresay that it is just a camouflage,just a fog which has hided their truly face of their mind,though not everone . try find a friend that is willing to be with u or at least chat with u, face to face or using msn is ok. u need a friend,i daresay. if a person dont feel lonely when being alone,friend might not be necessary, but in most people's case,just like u and me and others, we DO need a friend,a buddy,a pal,a folks that will always by our side, although he may not speak softly but lie,the true is the only language for him,but he will support u all the time even if there is a lot of disrupting formidable odds and problems and trouble and...whatever. anyway,get a friend as soon as possible and,if u dont mind, i will be glad to be ur friend(shy),although i live in hitdog(打狗), but we can contact to each other by bbs(ex:ptt),or mail,msn,etc. hope u get happier soon. --

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