※ 引述《chingmaylin (Wanna to be love)》之銘言： : Someone says that all Women need to be married with Mr. Right. : But they ever wonder if there is no Mr. Right in the world and not all : women, they, wanna to married. They don't wanna be ripe togather with : the man who is not suitable with them. These women just wanna find the : friend who can accompany them when they are wanna to find someone can : talk to them , shop with them , watch TV or Movies togather , or when : they are crying, there is a shoulder can depend on. : I am one of these women, I don't wanna married . I don't wanna : be to ripe. I wanna to be free to live . But I need to admmit I still : need a man who can accompany with me when I feel alone. Until now, I am : still looking for this kind of man . After reading our friend's post, I had quite a few things going on in my mind. Probably because, I've been pondering about similar issues as well. I think it's fine for a woman to stay single. It really is ok. It's just how much each individual can bear, especially for women(since our emotional quotient is usually higher and more complex), in terms of emotional needs. I am definitely one who is seeking the other half. I'm looking for the chemistry, that very FEEL.Yes, Mr Right, he's the one for me. Sadly, i haven't found him yet. Maybe I'll never find him, maybe there's no Mr Right for me. But I always hold on to this principle, similar to what our friend here has posted. If I've been destined to get married at the age of 40 or 50 or 60, I would do that, as long as I'm with the right guy. In other words, until I really find that FEEL and CHEMISTRY, I'm pretty sure I will stay single and live free indeed. Having said this, many of us would probably wonder, so, how would you know if he's the right one. I can only gather from my own experiences that a lot of times, it's from the trial-and-error we make along the way, the past relationships, our own individual lives and environment, that make us very clear of what we want. Most importantly, what we truly need deep in our hearts. A WANT and a NEED are two completely different things. The former, you can do without. The latter, is probably equivalent to air, without it , we are nothing. We are dead. And this is how we grow, on the things we need. My past has taught me and made clear to me, what i truly need in the future.Who has what i need, is now the person i'm looking for. This is all about growing up. Yes, I need someone to keep me company; make me smile when i'm sad...There are times when i'm lonely and sad, sick and just down-in-the-dumps, and i wished i had a shoulder to lean on, warm arms to hold me, someone to just kiss me on the forehead and tell me, "Everything's gonna be ok, sweetie.Trust me." Yes, someone to trust, entrusting the rest of my life into his hands. let's take it from the lyrics of the song "I wanna grow old with you" by Adam Sandler( The Wedding Singer). Yes, i need someone to grow old with me. Until i find that someone who is able to do so, I'm probably just growing up. The day I find this person, I've found my heart a home, a place, truly, where it can be free. A place where I am free. For this man, will take me for who i am. To all the women out there, here's cheers to us, being the person we are.There's a story in the Bible, about how Eve was made from Adam's rib.I've always believed, we are a lost rib, looking for our ribcage.Through the trial-and-error, we will begin to see, who we really fit with. To whom, do we belong. It may take us a long way, a hard route, rough patches, just to seek out this real fit. And that's what will make the final reunion one that will be a legacy left behind. --

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