※ 引述《d93522022 (Fantasy)》之銘言： : well, recently I am always confused something about my job and future, : I trust many people should has this kind of consideration, : but how many people could also reach thier target? I think that should be : very less and less, as I know there are many fascination and obstacle : to bothering and interrupting human. : for example, my young brother, he is a very stronger and ever had : very great dream when he was at childhood, but after he grown up, he almost : lost his target, because he fascinated by internet game...well, : "vedio game" or "interactive of internet game" are very intereasting for : most people, especially teenager! exactly, I am not against to play : those computer game or internet, but almost teenager who don't preceive : how much time had already been wasted. : actually, I agree to play video game at some free time, because it's : really a very nice pastime, unless he can control by heself! : evetually, I will inspire my brother to study someting skill, who : is intereasted, and I am going to do first and be his paragon! : my point is ~ dear boardmate, if you ever finished your target, please : share your experience to me and let me know who did you overcome all of : difficult to reach your aim. thanks very much Ok... I want to share my experience when I re-took the entrance exam last year. I graduated from high school in 2005 and took the entrance exam for university, but because I didn't study very hard, I only got into a so so university. The reason why I didn't study hard was because I didn't like studying, and there were so many other things distracting me, for example computer games, tv, internet, and many many more... My father decided for me that I should re-take the exam again next year, because he believed that I could do better. Actually I have to thank him for that, if he didn't make that decision for me, I wouldn't even have a chance to know how hard I can try. I went to cram school for revisions. I can say, without hesitation, that I have never worked so hard to achieve my goal before. I had to force myself to give up all those leisure activities until I reach my goal. I think the key to success is to have a goal, and have confidence in yourself. The most important part is "you", because if you are forced by someone else to do something you don't want to do, then you definitely wouldn't be doing your best, right? So, first want to do, and then understand what other things you have to give up to achieve your goal, that's the hardest part. I knew my future would have more options if I got into a better university, so I told myself I shouldn't be so shortsighted, or else I would ruin my future (of course it's not that serious, but I had to threaten myself to make things work.. haha). I told myself about all the awful things that might happen to me if I don't work hard. I might still be staying at home at the age of 30, taking money from my parents. I might not be able to find a husband, and will have to spend the rest of my life alone. Or even worse, my parents will kick me out of the house and I'll have to sleep on the streets. These really scared me. Talk to yourself more, find out what it is that you really want. Your goal doesn't have to be set too high at first, start off with a small goal, and then gradually increase the difficulty after you have achieved each small goal. This way you gain more confidence as you move towards your final goal! It's nice to have dreams, like I said before in my intro, and it would be even better if we can make them come true! Good luck!!^^ --

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