※ 引述《Spartan (Hook'em)》之銘言： : Ask yourself, do you want to accept a guy who looks obscene and dirty? : Do you want to go out with a guy who poos outside the toilet : and pees everywhere in your restroom? : Probably not, right? : Btw, even NBA announced its new dress code in the effort to : uplift its image recently. (but caused some serious debates though) Well.....I appreciate your opinions. Sometimes I wonder whether I am a guy who likes appearance more than his mind or haert. I am not saint, and I cannot deny that I am a such guy. I have some opinions to say. I am not sure whether the appearance of a person has something to do with his personality or not, but I cannot neglect this statement. Even if a beautiful or handsome person may be worse than you can image, we can get what from their appearance? Judging some information about a person is hard and needs experience. We need time to judge a person. We can read it from his appearence first, but it is not the most important factor about a person. There are some people who desire to make their gream come ture, most of them may not make the others comfortable. They may be look dirty and obscene, but the most important is that there is no people who can respect them. If that whether I can fall in love with an ugly gifted girl is the most important thing to judge my personality, I would feel sorry to say that I never meet a such girl..... Reportedly, a gifted person have better appearance and life than the others. I think at least I can expect some good things..... But I don't think these beautiful or handsome people are totally gifted and genious because it is dependent on susjective views. About these opinions, I suggest a book called "我的天才噩夢". I don't think there is a such person who doesn't mind of appearence, it delivers parts of the information of personality. I am just sad that the most people cannot figure out that the appearence is not all of a person, and they use the other reason to cover their shallow thoughts such as the style of speech and ideas of his own, etc. I always find their boyfriend or girlfriend are better than they claim. But they may fall in love because of these resons as they claim..... Who knows? If you trust it..... ---- I am glad that there are many exciting responds and "m". :) Thanks for your read. --

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