All of what you've mentioned is absolutely correct. Well, theoretically. Yes I do agree people shouldn't judge each other by their appearances, social status and whatsoever. But again as discussed before, we needed some standards to assess individuals. Certainly not everyone that dressed in suits are good people and not everyone who dressed like a hippy are bad ppl. But given chances, which one would you prefer to approach to first? Same as to social status. It is certainly not the 'absolute way ' to judge ppl, but similarly provided some guidance. if you are talking about appearances as in being pretty/handsome, or spending on make-up and this and that.... Or about how pretty ppl tend to get more attention / privileges. ...I don't see anything wrong with that... Human in nature like pretty things. That's why there's the existance of stars. It's a personal decision. Some choose to marry pretty ppl but are disgusted with their content. Some choose to share their life with one who really understands them. Some are lucky, cuz they have both~! In the end, everything's about balance again. And I do hope, personally, that I can plan my time carefully so I get to exercise (to maintain healthy & fit body), to study (so I'm knowlodged), to work (so I have money to spend...), to shop (so I can be well-dressed) and to leisure (so I can enjoy doing things & wasting time as I pleases). And guess what....I haven't suceeded. XD Therefore I lack the appearance & peronality ... haha XD lol~ a bit out of topic I guess ※ 引述《clouddeep (Be who you want to be)》之銘言： : People have the right that they can choose the way of their own life, : while most of them are seems more normal than me. Last time, I have : read a book about the genius. Waht is genius? Not as how outstanding : the results of study is. We should know that genius cannot be measured : by the artificial test, the most important thing is that the real genius : seems to be generated by the enthusiazm and interest. But I don't want : to describe the controversal issue. : I don't like that the young people take too much care of the apprearance : of other people. When I take some glance of the behviors of the young : girls and boys such as the couple, I cannot bear the stupid and meaningless : action and reaction. I can understand what a people is by his behavior. : I think a personality can be understood by their words and deeds. : A people cannot be estimated by their academic background or money. : Although most of people cannot understand it, they want their girlfriend : or boyfriend made up. After a terrible relationship, I understand totally : how miserable these young people is. I can spend time and money on my : appearance, but I feel meaningless..... : --- : take it easy.... : just chat..... --

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