被大量未經請求的建議淹沒，可能會讓人感到惱怒與挫折。 我們都有過這樣的經驗。 當有人告訴你你做得不對，或是告訴你他們認為你應該怎麼做時，甚至可能讓你覺得受到 了侮辱。 有些人也許會試圖說服你以某種方式處理問題，儘管那並不符合你的直覺。 感謝他們的建議，並試著理解這是出於好意。 然後，按照你認為最適合的方式去做。 你很可能是對的，巨蟹座，而最終的結果將證明你的選擇是正確的。 Being inundated with unasked-for advice can be aggravating and frustrating. We have all been there. When someone tells you that what you're doing is wrong o r tells you what they think you should be doing, it might even feel insulting. Someone may be trying to persuade you to handle an issue in a certain way, ev en though it does not feel right to you. Thank them for their advice and try t o understand that it comes from a well-meaning place. Then do what you feel is best. You are likely right, Cancer, and the result will be your validation. --

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