你很堅強，但內心卻懷抱著溫柔的靈魂。 你出於善意，可能正試圖說服某人，他們所做的選擇是錯誤的。 無論你多麼委婉地表達建議，多麼耐心且充滿同理心地與對方交談，對方可能仍會試圖打 斷你、大聲斥責你，甚至完全忽視你所說的話。 那是因為在某種程度上，他們知道你說的是對的。 一旦你說出了你想說的話，就放下吧，不要把任何敵意放在心上。 讓對方自己慢慢體會其中的道理。 You are tough, but you have a gentle spirit. With only good intentions in mind , you may be trying to convince someone that a choice they are making is wrong . No matter how delicately you frame your words of advice and no matter how pa tiently and compassionately you talk to this person, they may attempt to talk over you, yell at you, and generally disregard what you have to say. They don' t want to hear it because, on some level, they know you are right. Once you ha ve said what you want to say, let it go, and don't take any animosity personal ly. Let it sink in. --

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