Cancer horoscope for 星期一 9月 20 A helpless friend or family member may be far less helpless than you think. Of course, they may be presenting this image to endear themselves to you, or eve n for the pity they know you will have for them. Anyone who knows you well kno ws what a softie you can be, and how easy it is to enlist your aid with a sob story or a tale of heartbreak or helplessness. But if a friend or a family mem ber has come to you one too many times with a story that is becoming less than believable, call them on it. Making them stand on their own two feet is actua lly a good thing you can do for them. 一個無助的朋友或家人可能遠沒有你想像的那麼無助。當然，他們展示這個形象可能是為 了討好你，或者甚至對他們產生同情。 任何了解你的人都知道你可以是一個多麼柔軟的人，以及通過一個哭泣的故事或一個心碎 或無助的故事來獲得你的幫助是多麼容易。 但是，如果朋友或家人帶著越來越不可信的故事來找你太多次找你，請告訴給他們，讓他 們『自立』。 實際上，這是你可以為他們做的一件好事。 ꀭ------------------------------------------ 渣渣翻譯，翻錯請見諒。 --

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