You can't make someone like you if they don't like who you truly are and what you stand for. You are not someone who would choose to pretend to be something other than what you truly are, even if you need to endear yourself to someone. You are far more likely to crawl into your shell and hide out for a while. You know, though, that doing so won't change anything. If you have to deal with someone today who doesn't seem to appreciate you, try to find common ground, and find something to like about them. Liking someone who doesn't like you is often a great way to grab someone's attaention. 如果某個人不喜歡真正的你和你的立場，你就沒辦法讓他喜歡你。你不是會選擇假裝 不是真實的自己的人，就算你需要讓某個人喜歡你也一樣。你更像是會爬進自己的殼 裡，並且暫時躲起來的人。不過你知道這樣做不會改變任何事。如果你今天必須跟某 個似乎不欣賞你的人互動，試著找出共通點，並且找到他們值得喜歡的點。喜歡一個 不喜歡你的人常常是攫取他的注意力的絕佳方式。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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