We do many things for love. Sometimes we agree to changes or adventures that don't really suit us in order to please someone we care about. But when this happens continually, it may be a sign that you are the one doing all or most of the giving and there is not enough consideration for your wants and needs. This may come up this week, and you should probably deal with it directly or it will continue, which could drive you apart from someone. Speak your mind and be as honest as possible in a kind way. The other person may not even realize they are being selfish. Staying calm may not seem like an option when someone in your world lets you sown. If that has happened to you recently, Moonchild, you may be ready to lash out and say everything that has been on your mind. But if you don't temper your anger with some level of courtesy as well, your words will fly right over that person's head, and all you will wind up with is conflict. However, if you explain this adult to adult and truly listen to the other person's side of it, you may come to an understanding that will make you feel better. Don't give up on a goal that seems to keep slipping away. The timing just has not been right. But there may be an inkling of another chance later this week. 我們做得很多事都是出於愛，有時候我們為了取悅在乎的人而同意改變，或是做其實 不適合我們的事。可是當這個情況一直發生的時候，這也許是個徵兆，顯示出你才是 包辦一切或付出最多的人，不過對方卻沒有足以深思熟慮你想要和需要的。本週可能 會出現這個情況，你應該要直接處理好，不然這個情況就會繼續下去，這會讓你離開 某個人。你要說出自己的心聲，盡可能以溫和的方式保持誠實，因為對方或許甚至不 會了解到自己很自私。 當你身邊的某個人讓你失望了，保持冷靜也許不是個好選擇。如果你最近遇到這個情 況，月之子，你可能準備好要大肆抨擊以及說出自己放在心中許久的一切。但是如果 你大發脾氣，沒有保持一定程度的禮貌，那麼對方就會把你的言詞當作耳邊風，最終 只會造成紛爭。然而，如果你用成熟的方式解釋，真心傾聽對方對這件事的觀點，那 你們或許就會互相理解，讓雙方都更好過。 別放棄某個似乎一直快溜走的機會，只是因為時間未到罷了，不過在週三之後，也許 會出現某些跡象，顯示你將會有其他機會。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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