Good enough is not good enough for you, Moonchild, even if you have reconciled yourself to the idea that you will never get what you really want. You may think that you have to come up with a replacement to fill up that space where what you want should be - but you don't. Instead of settling for your second choice just to feel like you got something, why not wait until you discover something else that can become your first choice? If you wait, you may even find that your original wish will become available to you again. 好，還要更好，月之子，對你來說，就算你已經說服自己接受永遠都不會得到你想要 的了，你可能會認為自己必須想個替代方案來填補你想要的東西，但是你卻沒這麼做。 與其勉強自己退而求其次，讓自己覺得好像有得到某些東西，那為什麼不等一等，直 到你發現足以成為首選的東西呢？如果你等等看，那你也許還會發現原本的願望再度 成真了。 -- 願所有相遇都是美好而不留遺憾。 --

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