Someone who sees him/herself as an expert on a topic you are now dealing with may be giving you some unasked-for advice. Although you may be listening respectfully, Moonchild, the advice you are receiving - or criticism as the case may be - is rather negative. This person clearly does not approve of what you are doing or planning, and because of their experienced background, it may be scaring you. Listen instead to your heart. Listen instead to your intuition. Take whatever good you can find in this person's message since it may be delivered with love, but be optimistic. 有個人自以為是某方面的專家，他／她不請自來，要給你建議，雖然你還是會出於敬 意而聽聽看他要說什麼，月之子，但是他給的建議—或者在這個情況裡，很可能是批 評—其實相當負面。這個人顯然不認同你正在做或計劃的事情，因為他們有相關經驗 和背景，而這可能會嚇到你。傾聽自己的心聲，傾聽自己的直覺，從這個人給予的資 訊之中盡可能地截取有用的部分，因為這畢竟是出自善意，不過你要記得保持樂觀。 -- 相遇要在對的時間，重逢也是。 --

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