Someone may not be putting as much effort into something as you think they should, Moonchild. You believe that if this person got to work and poured their talent and effort into something constructive, they could have a better and more enjoyable life. You want the best for this person, of course, but you can't force someone else to become motivated. What you can do, however, is inspire them, encourage them, and help build up their confidence. That might be the spark they need. 有個人可能沒有像你認定的那樣努力付出，月之子，你相信如果這個人願意努力，把 自己的才華和付出運用在有建設性的事情上，那麼他們或許就會有更好、更愉快的人 生。你當然想要這個人帶出自己最好的那一面，但是你不能逼迫其他人產生動力。然 而，你可以做的是啟發和鼓勵他們，並且幫助他們建立信心，而那也許正好是他們需 要的火花。 -- 相遇要在對的時間，重逢也是。 --

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