Here is a simple way to make yourself a happier person, Moonchild. Although you can be quite independent, you also have a deep need to please other people - especially the people you care the most about. But sometimes you lose sight of your own goals and desires because the goals and desires of other people become very important to you. Sometimes you even begin to see their objectives as your own. But if you can find a way to separate these, and you opt to make your own needs and opinions most important -at least some of the time - your own happiness will be easier to achieve. 這裡有一種讓你成為更快樂的人的方法，很簡單，月之子。雖然你可以很獨立，但是 你內心深處還是有著很深刻的需求：你想要取悅他人，尤其是那些你最在乎的人。可 是有時候你看不見自己的目標和內心真實的慾望，因為其他人的目標和慾望成了你最 重要的事情。有時候，你甚至把他們的目標當作自己的目標，但是如果你能找出方法 來區別這些，你選擇把自己的需求和意見擺在最重要的位置—至少某些時候，你必須 這樣做—那麼你就更容易感到幸福快樂。 ---------------------------------------------- 簡易版：多愛自己一點，多為自己著想。 --

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