http://goo.gl/f4KsKl Your normal direct approach needs a bit of adjustment, especially if you're trying to back out of something you agreed to quite a while ago. There's no need to hem and haw -- which is pretty much impossible for you in any case -- but you do need to be sensitive to the subtleties of the situation. Reassure the right people that you're not just dropping out for some sweeter offer (that is the case, right?), and give up something nice to compensate. 你平常直接了當的態度需要有些調整，特別是當你試著要退出前一陣子某件你同意的事情 。也沒有必要吞吞吐吐 -- 雖然這對你來說也是不可能的事情 -- 但對於環境的細微之處 是必須要更敏感些。讓某個正確的人知道你並不是因為一點甜頭就拋棄他(至少這次是因 為這樣，對吧?)，放棄一些你覺得很棒的事物當作補償吧。 http://goo.gl/B2qlrx Claire: You feel so much happier and lighter than you did a few months ago and your laughter comes so much easier. This is good news, so don't let it be brought down by jealous faces today. 克萊兒: 比起幾個月前，你覺得你更快樂也更明亮了，而且笑聲也比之前更容易出現了。這是很棒 的消息，所以今天別因為那些忌妒的臉孔而使你失去這些。 http://goo.gl/M4PqnV Frank: Not known to be a shrinking violet, you have no problem expressing your opinions today, especially where you feel changes are long overdue. It’s the alterations in your home zone that are giving you the most resistance, so be tactful and diplomatic and others may bend to your whims. 法蘭克: 大家都知道你不是個害羞的人，對於要表達自己的意見，你今天完全沒有問題，特別是你 感到奇怪的某處或是過期太久的。在你家的區域中所要做的變更正是你最大的阻力來源， 所以要採用婉轉點的外交手腕，這樣其他人可能會因為你的率性而稍微為你拐個彎。 這氣溫果然立馬著涼，大家記得帶件外套啊~ ↑一著涼肚子就會嚷著要去廁所的體質 --

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