You are great at listening to other people's problems because you are very insightful, and you offer excellent advice. But one particular person might come to you time and time again for guidance, only to disregard the wise words you offer. You can continue to provide guidance, of course, but it might be more helpful to teach this person better ways of coming to their own conclusions, since they won't likely follow your lead anyway. This would help to make them more independent, which is precisely what's needed. 你很擅長傾聽別人的問題， 因為你洞察力很好且會提供很好的建議。 某些特定的人會一次又一次的來找你尋求指導， 但卻又忽視你提供的明智方法。 當然，你可以繼續的提供指導， 但是更有幫助的應該會是教會他們自己得出結論， 因為他們總是不會好好的跟隨你的領導。 這會有助於他們更加的獨立，也是真正需要的。 --

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