If someone tries to tell you today that you are a pessimist- just tell them that you are realist. That's the truth, Aquarius. You are usually someone with a very optimistic approach to life, so when some idea or venture does not seem fully feasible, you are likely to further explore it and come up with a realistic assessment of the situation. Someone else's plan may not seem viable to you, at least the way it stands right now. But you can offer that person some ideas for modification that can make the plan more realistic-and that's actually a very optimistic approach. 如果今天有人說－你是個悲觀主義者， 請告訴他們，你其實更像是實在主義者。 這可一點都不假，水瓶們。 你通常是個對生活保持樂觀態度的人， 所以當一個想法或者探險看似全然不可行時， 你可能會更進一步去探究，並且提出一個較實際的情況評估。 有些人的計劃對你來說看來不可行，至少表面上是如此。 但你可以提供對方一些調整的做法， 讓這個計畫更實際，這才是更正向的做法。 小結：今天你的做法不是現實，你只是很實際罷了！ -- 人生這麼短 你怎麼不去追求你要的？ --

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