someone in your inner circle may be going through some trouble right now. And, even though this trouble may be self-induced, you may feel inclined to he lp this person out. You may think that you can offer the perfect advice or much needed assistance and help this person move on to a more productive path. But don't you have your own troubles of challanges to deal with right now, Aqu arius? You probably do. And besides, when someone repeatedly finds trouble, finding thier own way out could be the lesson they need. 有個在你所屬團體內的人正經歷著麻煩，這個麻煩看起來似乎是他自找的，但你仍傾向幫 助他。 你也許想著要給他超棒的意見、必須的協助，來幫助他回到有成效的方向上。 但，水瓶們，難道你現在沒有更麻煩的事情或挑戰該處理嗎？也許是有的，除此之外，當 一個人不斷遇到重複性的麻煩時，自己找解決方法就是他們的課題。 小結：先處理自己的事情，少雞婆了！ --

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