You are dealing with emotional pain that has been with you for a long time. It occurred because of something someone said or did to you, and although a lot of time has passed, it still hurts, dear Gemini. You may tell yourself that yo u just have to grin and bear it, but don't kid yourself - that will only allow it to linger. This is something that is holding you back from joy and from co nnecting with others, like scar tissue. You may not be able to reconcile this with the one who caused it, but you can forgive them anyway and understand tha t people who hurt others often hurt themselves. Do this for your own well-bein g. 你正在處理一個伴隨你很久的情緒傷痛。 它會發生是因為某個人對你做了或說了些什麼， 雖然時間已經過去很久了，它仍然很痛，親愛的雙子們。 你也許會告訴你自己只要微笑著忍痛它，但是不要欺騙你自己 — 那只會讓它揮之不去。 這個是阻止你快樂與他人溝通，就像疤痕組織。 你也許無法將這件事情與造成此事的人調和在一起， 但是無論如何你都可以原諒他們， 並理解傷害別人的人往往也傷害他們自己。 為你自己的福祉而這樣子做。 Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教，謝謝。 我覺得如果不能原諒那個傷害你的人也沒有關係， 只要把自己先顧好就好了。 --

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