我表姐居然说要和自己的30岁结婚了! 她说要先学会爱自己才能爱别人， 所以要先和自己结婚! 我还半被强迫和半自愿的情况下，变成新秘。 她还要印喜帖、拍婚纱、做谢卡。她说她希望能有20000人帮她的粉丝页按赞， 做为网路的祝福。然後，如果我帮她找到这麽多人，我就可以不用包礼金了! 而且还会寄自己可爱电子喜帖送给大家!(需留下email) 所以大家帮她按一个赞吧 http://www.facebook.com/pages/OnlyOnlys-Wedding/154203044599608?ref=sgm 下面是她写的其中一篇，为什麽要和自己结婚 婚礼的概念已经超越原来的想法 在公布我要和自己的30岁结婚後，得到许多不同的回应，让我重新思考和自己结婚的概念 与意义。仅管，在最初的概念，只是一个生日会或欢送会的变相名称，然而，在讨论的过 程，了解婚礼的细节的过程中，婚礼的概念已经超越原来的想法。 The concept of the wedding is now more than the initial idea. After announced I am going to marry myself, my 30 years old, I received many different responses. It makes me to re-think about the meaning and concept for marrying myself. Although at the very beginning, it is just a name of my birthday party and farewell party, the concept of the wedding is now more than the initial idea. 为什麽结婚? 为什麽结婚?有人交往3个月或半年就结婚，有人交往三年、五年或更久才结婚。与生命 中所遇见的谁相比，自己和自己的相处时间是最长的，也会一直相处下去，为什麽不能和 自己结婚? 这些年，大家总是常常提起 “要多爱自己一些”、 “要先学会爱自己，才能 爱别人”。 我以为这场婚礼对我而言，是一场重要的仪式，宣誓我将永远爱我自己的方 式。这不是必须的，但这是我想要的，仅管对很多人而言，这样很怪。 Why marry? Why marry? Some people get marry after they get together for 3 month and some get marry after they are together for 3 years or 5 years or even longer. Comparing anyone who we meet in our life, indeed we spend the longest time with ourselves in our life. So why not marry myself. These years, people always mention “ you should love yourself more” or “we must learn to love ourselves before love others”. To me, this wedding is as a ceremony, a way to swear I will love myself forever. It is not necessary to do but this what I want although many people think it is very weird. 爱自己并不容易 其实爱自己并不容易，因为很多时候，我们都在用不同的方式伤害自己，包含所谓”自私 ”也是伤害自己的一种方式。 Not easy to love self Indeed, it is not easy to love self as many times we are hurt ourselves in many ways and it is including so called “selfish” as a way. --

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