作者loveshih (pepe)
看板marriage
标题Re: [苦恼] 老婆一直抱怨我妈哪里不好...
时间Tue Dec 5 16:19:49 2006
I'm sorry I can't type Chinese characters here..
but I really want to remind you of something important
The way your wife is treating your mother is affected greatly by
your attitude towards your mother.
In other words, if you can show the significance of your mother to you,
your wife will change her attitude
because she loves you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings if she
thinks your mother is important to you.
Simply put, if you respect your mother, your wife will (in most cases).
I love my husband so that I respect my parents-in-law even when they
are wrong because I know my husband cherishes them very much.
Maybe it's a good idea for you to reflect on how you treat and look at
your own mother deep in your heart.
Good luck!
※ 引述《aTimWu (提姆)》之铭言：
: 我妈是住乡下的老粗，我老婆是住桃园的比较现代的人
: 之前我知道她们两互看不顺眼，所以我把我妈送到乡下去住
: 如今我妈因为有事上来住几天，我上班的时候手机接不停
: 下班更是焦头烂额，老婆正值怀孕，是家中的大老
: 问题是：我已经快崩溃啦。
: 我现在天天下班就是骂我妈
: 其实我骂的很心虚，因为对我妈来说根本不公平
: 就拿锁门这件事，乡下都是睡觉才锁门的(甚至根本没锁，关起来而已)
: 桃园是出门锁一次，还要带key....不然会被锁在门外
: 我妈都说：去转角买东西，还要锁门喔??(其实我也不锁的)
: 阿巴威，有时候真的....觉得自己真的是不孝顺啊
: 各位大老，有没有办法啊?? 还是把她们分开比较好喔。
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※ 编辑: loveshih 来自: 192.218.240.119 (12/05 16:26)
1F：推 aTimWu:哇，我又看不懂了.... 12/05 16:31
2F：推 jhchu:推啊~~~~~ 12/05 16:47
3F：→ jhchu:大意就是说，你老婆的态度可能受到你对你妈妈的态度所影响 12/05 16:47
4F：→ jhchu:多多尊重你妈妈，让你老婆知道你妈妈对你很重要很重要 12/05 16:47
5F：→ jhchu:或许你老婆对你妈妈的态度会有些许的改变 12/05 16:48
6F：推 JUDYfans:推! 12/05 17:18
7F：推 callalily:推 有道理 12/05 18:40
8F：→ splh:推,如果你自己都不孝顺了,更不用说你老婆了 12/05 18:53
9F：推 wenje:大推~~~ 12/05 19:06
10F：推 emoon:推这篇 而且 你不会要你儿子女儿也不孝顺奶奶、骂奶奶吧？ 12/05 19:42
11F：推 eelru:推~你自己都不尊重你妈妈，你老婆当然不会尊重你妈妈 12/05 19:55
12F：推 Maite:推~ 12/06 02:34
13F：推 ainnej:推~~如果你用骂的解决 你太太当然也有样学样喽:P 12/07 15:26
14F：推 tureno:推~~自己的心态很重要 12/11 17:04