你或许认为你真的已经原谅了某人所对你做的错事，阿牛。这可能是因为你对他说了宽恕 的话语後认为这件事就这样结束了。但这件事远不止这样，这可能是个令人混乱的范畴， 因为我们都知道，即便你已经原谅了那人，也不必接受他们未来对你做出的坏事，甚至继 续跟那些会对我们不利的人来往。但更重要的是，你必须认知到，要原谅某人必须要打从 心底原谅。不论接下来会发生什麽，它必须是真实的。今天花点时间确认自己是否在这样 的状态里吧。 —— You may truly believe that you have forgiven someone for a wrong against you, Taurus. You may think that just because you have spoken words of forgiveness t hat it's a done deal. But there is more to it than that. This can be a confusi ng area, because we know that even with forgiveness, we do not have to accept future bad behavior, or even continue to associate with those who have done us wrong. But more than that, you need to recognize that forgiving someone must be in your heart. It must be authentic, no matter what follows from there. Tak e some time today to see if that's where you are. —— --

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