你或许对一个关系问题的具体结果抱持固定的态度。这或许正是阻碍你们和平相处的原因 。也许你对事情的发展有着自己的想法，因此你可能没有吸收对方认为最好的东西。但如 果你仔细倾听，你就能创造一个更有活力的交流，即便你不同意对方的观点。透过表示你 希望倾听他们的意见，他们就会更容易接受你的想法，阿牛。 —— You may be fixed on a specific outcome to a relationship issue. That may be ex actly what has been holding you back from reaching a peaceful accord. Maybe yo u are so set on your idea of how things should go that you aren't even absorbi ng what the other person thinks would be best. But if you listen carefully, yo u can create a more dynamic exchange - even if you don't agree with the other party. By showing you want to hear them, they will be more receptive to your i deas, Taurus. —— outcome 产物；後果；效果 peaceful accord 和平条约 --

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