我们都知道有些人在情感上过於依赖。不论他们是朋友或家人，这些人有的直接将你的能 量吸走的倾向。但要记住一件事，阿牛，或许他们不喜欢这麽做，这些人的需求可能来自 於他们缺乏对自己的自信，还有他们的自卑感。与其只是容忍这些碰巧出现在你生活中的 人，不如努力培养他们的自尊心。这是种对关系的投资，对你来说可能也是非常有帮助的 。 —— We all know someone who is emotionally needy. Whether they are friends or fami ly members, they tend to have a knack for sucking the energy right out of you. But keep in mind, Taurus, that they may not like being that way, and their ne ediness probably comes from a lack of confidence in who and what they are, and a feeling of inferiority. Instead of just tolerating someone like this who ha ppens to be in your life, work on building them up and boosting their self-est eem. It's an investment in a relationship that could be very instrumental to y ou, too. —— emotionally needy 在感情上过於依赖 tend to 有…倾向、易於、导致 knack 诀窍、技巧 inferiority 自卑、劣势、低等、 tolerate 忍受、容许、宽恕 instrumental 有帮助的、乐器 --

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