你可能数次将自己的心力花费在一些事情上，但结果不尽人意。 也许你投资了所有，却血本无归。 这些经验总是令人沮丧、气馁。 与此同时，当你再次面对挑战时总有所顾忌，不敢投入自己全部的心血、努力。 呣呣~你可能因为一次严重的打击而感到畏惧、恐慌。 正因为如此，当机会再次降临时，你会因过往的经验而不敢冒进。 然而，若你能试着投入与前次同等份量的心力，这次成功的机率将会高上许多。 注: 不论爱情、友谊、事业等，只要我们曾在其中吃过亏、受过伤，往往会让人变得谨慎，甚 至过度小心。 并非谨慎行事不好，事实上，这是天性使然。但是，这同时也代表着一旦失足则反噬的力 道会让人难以承受。 跌倒需要勇气，失败也是。别因为一次、两次、数次的失败而畏缩、责备自己，相反地，要 诚实的告诉自己:若没有这次失败，可能无法看清更多事情。 伤口会出血、癒合，最後结成一道清晰的疤痕，疤痕虽然不美丽，却是成长的证明。 There are times when you can pour your heart and soul into something , and it still doesn't turn out well. You can invest everything you have in something and get nothing in return. These experiences are dispiriting and disillusioning. And when you feel that way , you may find it harder to try again the next time, or you may not want to put so much of yourself into it. You may still be reeling from a disappointmenting outcome , Taurus. And because of that , you may not be taking a new opportunity very seriously. But if you put as much into this as you did into a failed venture , the chances of success this time are much higher. --

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