当你陷入泥淖时，该如何脱身呢? 亲爱的呣呣~你现在正要处理的事情就如同上述一般。 你觉得自己的处境犹如身陷在深峻的沟壑，要脱身并非容易的事。 但你可曾想过:这道沟壑可正如字面上一样，深峻且险恶吗? 话已至此，要如何脱险呢? 你可以尝试寻找石块或木块一类的着力点踩在上面，藉此让自己爬上来。 同理，从灵感或是想法中寻找突破此困境的着力点，让自己不再被困住。 若你能多方思考并对症下药，那麽这麻烦不会困扰你太久的。 注: 在处理多方问题时，我们总会想尽可能的找到两全其美的办法，一方面是不想多得罪，另 方面可以让自己多添加信心。 但两全其美往往是最困难的地方，该如何让两边都满意是需要深思的课题。 反过来想，并非要同时讨好两方，而是尽可能做到「不得罪」某一边，虽然不见得能让两 边都满意，但至少是「能接受」的程度。 依此去想可能会找到不同的解决办法。 When you are stuck in a rut , how do you climb out? That may be a dilemma you are dealing with right now , dear Taurus. You may feel stuck in a negative groove of some kind right now and climbing out is not easy. But what if you were stuck in a literal ditch? How would you get out of that? You might look for a rock or a log to step up onto , which would make it easier to hoist yourself out. Same thing here. Find a way to lift yourself up through inspiration and ambition. You will get out in no time if you make a thoughtful and pointed effort. --

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