作者chy19890517 (mocat)
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标题[吃草] DailyHoroscope12/6
时间Fri Dec 6 00:33:36 2019
你可能有个重要问题需要讨论,但对方的性格相当强势、不友善以至於你很难与对方沟通。
但有时候人们之所以会有这样的行为,是出自於他们自我保护的意识,害怕被占便宜。
若你没有这种意图,那麽可以多采取友善的态度,降低对方敌意,让彼此合作的更愉快。
试试看吧~
注1:比起社交,有些时候宁可自己想办法解决,也不想要寻求他人帮助,但往往事情总是会
遇到不得不的情况。有时并非对方难相处,而是我们自己预设「对方难相处」,这是满常
见的事情。然凡事还是得自己亲身体验才能断定,与这类人共事时,不须思考太多自己的
行为,诸如:是否冒犯对方、有没有说错话、这样做会不会惹对方生气...等,一切以沟通
时的规则进行,别超出规则外则多半会有好的结果。
注2:但如果可以还是宁可自己来就是...
You may have an important matter to discuss with someone who appears to be very
gruff and tough and difficult to deal with.
But sometimes a person will put on a show of being gruff and tough and difficult
to deal with when they are afraid of being taken advantage of.
Since that is not your plan , approaching this person in an open , friendly way
could dispel any fears and make your exchange for more pleasant.
Give it a try.
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