你可能与某个人对一项论点争论不休。 乍看下似乎是只要坚持到某方认输就等於赢了这场争执。 但事实上那并不是正确的结果，仅是某一方默认这件事，而在这之中没人会感到快乐。 争执并非是说话比较大声，或是固执己见到最後才是对的。 若你想完善的解决这件事，那麽你必须对自己诚实，虚心地与他人讨论结果，同时，也可 能需要退步妥协。 注:固执或许是身为呣呣的通病，但在我认为的固执总有些大原则不能退让，基於这个原 则下，适度的退步或许会是更好的选择。 You or someone you know may be involved in an argument that has gone on for quite some time. It may seem that the winner will be the one who outlasts the other. But that would not be a true agreement - it would be winning by default , and no one would be happy. It shouldn't be about who argues the loudest or the longest . If this is to be worked out properly , there ahs to be an honest disscussion and perhaps some compromise. --

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