越是我们所爱、或是能交心的亲密挚友，越有可能在无意间重伤我们。 我们可能会选择对他说出在意的部分，而非对其他人诉苦。 若最近有人做过类似的事情，或是伤害、触犯到你，先别急着做出反应，或许对方只是 无意间不小心冒犯到。 但若是这个这个行为有明确的动机或是相关的根据证明，那麽就别多花费心思为他的行为 辩解了。 直白地说出自己的感受，但要知道这可能也是某种让彼此更密切的契机，呣呣~ 注1:每个人或多或少都会犯些无心之过，请先别先入为主的认为对方在迫害自己，或许他 只是不小心而已。但若是有很明显的动机或证据，那麽不妨直接找对方说清楚。记得，与 他沟通此事并不是吵架或是撕破脸，而是弥平彼此心中的裂痕或鸿沟，雨过天青依然是好 朋友。 注2:大家记得我好开心....=艹= 我用的是一个红底白字的APP，上面有大写的白字DH，APP的名称是DailyHoroscope The people we love the most and who know the most about us are also the same people who have the greatest potential to hurt us - sometimes without intending to. We might say or reveal things to someone we know on this level that we would never say or reveal to anyone else. If someone has said or done something recently that hurts , recognize that sometimes this is what comes along with a close connection. But if that connection offers more positive than negative , then it's worth it. Express how you feel , but know that there is a great deal of good here too , Taurus. --

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