我们从小就学会如何评价他人。从幼稚园时他在游乐场上的表现，到高中时他的穿衣风格，之所以我们总是这样在意他人、习惯给予批评指教，可以追溯至我们想要找寻自己在群体中的定位。有时候我们对自身下的评语，更是特别犀利。 但你是一个持续成长中的个体，牛牛，你拥有美丽的灵魂和可塑的潜能。当你又想对自己做出评价时，一定要记得，做出你想要的改变，并用爱为之。 注：不要对自己那麽严格，今天就轻松点吧！ We learn to judge at an early age. From the way someone plays on the playground in kindergarten to the clothes someone wears in high school - we are constantly thinking about and making appraisals of others. Part of that comes from trying to figure out where we stand in the mix. And sometimes our judgment of ourselves can be quite harsh. You are a work-in-progress, Taurus, but you have a beautiful soul and the potential to be anything you want to be. When you assess yourself, as we all naturally do, by all means, make the changes you want, but do so with love. - - 如有误翻请指正 ----- Sent from JPTT on my iPhone --

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