有些人会倾向於分享许多他们个人生活的事情。 他们靠着分享这些秘密去建立与他人亲密的相处，或是减缓他们个人的焦虑。 当没有能够个别倾诉的对象时，把内心的事情说出来并试图寻求回馈是相当困难的事情。 有时候或许可以得到缓解，有时这也与缺乏自信有关，但请记得:若你跟错误的对象倾诉， 那麽很容易事与愿违。 呣呣~你现在可能觉得自己需要一个能够倾诉需求的对象，但请特别注意你是向谁讨拍。 去寻求些你确定自己能够信任的人吧~ 注:每个人都会有想发牢骚讨拍的时候，但请记得该对象要是你能信任的人。除此之外，也 请别过度依赖这个人，因为这会让人感受到压力或是焦虑，除非你非常确定他人的个性不 会因为你的倾诉而受影响。 Some people have a tendency to be way too open about their personal lives. They share their secrets as a way of creating intimacy or as a way to relieve stress. In a sense , it is like thinking out loud and seeking feedback for difficult challenges when no other source of counseling is available. Sometimes this is done because of the need for validation or feedback , sometimes it comes from a lack of self-esteem - but it can easily backfire if you confide in the wrong person. You may feel the need to share something with others now , Taurus , but be careful about who you share it with. Seek out someone you know you are certain you can trust. --

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