当一个你打从心底认同的人告诉你一件事时，你会不加思索的全盘接受，而不会产生任何 怀疑。 呣呣~多数人都是如此。 最近某些人跟你咬耳朵的事－－尤其是有关感情的－－可能并不是真的，或是并非事情全貌。 这并不代表他故意说谎。 可能是他们自己被自己所误导。 先做好心理建设，然後再仔细调查你所听闻的事情。 在行动前先查证、调查清楚! 注1:别被一时的话语所影响，在摊牌之前不妨先沟通、调查为何如此。 注2:感情上的安全感应该是自己给自己的，而非他人。若因他人三言两语就吵架，那注定 不适合的。 所以我单身...呜呜呜.......... When a person you know to be honest tells you something in a factual way , you would most likely accept what that person told you as the truth , without questioning it. Most people would , Taurus. But something that was shared with you recently -- something that may be emotionally impactful -- may not be the truth , or at least not the whole truth. This does not mean that the person was intentionally being dishonest. They may have gottrn misleading imformation themselves. Just to protect yourself , look into what you hear. Verify it or rule it out before taking action. --

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