你的家人或是朋友圈的人对你不太友善。 这状况并非最近，而是以循序渐进的方式。起初，可能没有明显或是讨厌的感觉，但随着 时间过去会开始有不舒服的感受，接着厌恶感倍增，但你无法对此做出回应或是反驳。 把事情拉到台面上只会让你觉得自己像个坏人，因为这种对待的方式并不突出或显眼。 然而，随着时间慢慢过去，厌恶感只会有增无减。 你不一定要把这件事说出来，但可以改变过去你所做的应对模式。 心之所向即为自身标的。 注1:该对待方式属於冷暴力，这种往往最棘手也最难解决，但换个角度想:不须迁就自己在 对方身上，意即无须随着对方的回应起舞，做自己的主人吧~ 注2:接连好几天的低落，若有对象倒还好，没对象就是个死胡同呢... Someone in your family or your circle of friend has a negative way of treating you. Since this pattern is not overtly mean or nasty - but rather uncomfortably passive - aggressive - you don't always feel that there is anything you can say or do about it. You may fear that bringing the issue up will only make you look bad , simply because the treatment is so inderstated. However , over time the effects of this have built up. You don't necessarily have to speak up , but you could change your reaction to it by not responding. Since your response is the goal , this sould work. --

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