You may have some criticism to share with someone today, dear Scorpio, but it doesn't have to be delivered in a harsh manner. You can share your comments and offer your guidance in a way that feels uplifting, encouraging, and complimentary. Point out what that person is doing well first, and then offer suggestions for doing even better. If you approach it that way, it will not come across as harsh or punitive; it will be seen instead as thoughtful, hopeful, and truly helpful. 你今天也许想跟某个人分享一些批评性的言论，亲爱的天蠍，但是这不必然是以严厉 的方式来表达。你可以用让人感觉到振奋心神、备受鼓励跟被赞美的方式来分享你的 意见和提供指引方向。首先，你要先点出那个人是在哪些部分做得很棒，接着再建议 是哪些部分可以做得更好。如果你采用那个方式处理的话，这就不会显得严厉或苛刻； 反而会被视为是既体贴、充满希望又真的能帮得上忙。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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