You have certain expectations of someone in your life, partially based on what you have come to believe about them, and partly on what you want them to be. You may be narrowing down the relationship you could have with this person and limiting its potential. Instead of limiting or restricting what this relationship could become if your walls weren't up, just encourage the individual to show their true colors and simply be themselves. You may find that the person you discover is far more interesting and exciting than the one you only thought you knew. 你对生命里的某个人有着一定程度的期待，有一部份是基於你对他的看法，而另一部 份则是出於你想要他成为怎麽样的人。你也许正在压缩跟这个人的关系，并且限制这 段关系的发展潜力。如果你的心墙尚未高筑，那麽与其限制或约束这段关系的走向， 不如就鼓励这个人展现他最真实的模样，然後让他做最纯粹的自己。你可能会发现你 找到的这个人，远比你认识的他还要更有趣、更让你感到兴奋。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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