Transforming angry, resentful thoughts into optimistic, hopeful thoughts is a superpower, dear Scorpio. When someone does something that upsets, hurts, or angers you, you might waste a lot of time feeling angry and vengeful. What does that accomplish? It doesn't change anything externally, but it does cause you a lot of anxiety. If you can transform a current upsetting feeling about someone into more loving, inspiring thoughts, you can turn things around for yourself. Maybe the relationship can grow stronger. Perhaps something good can come out of it. Think about it that way. 把愤怒和怨恨的想法转化成乐观且有希望的想法是一种超能力，亲爱的天蠍。当某个 人做了会让你难过、受伤或是生气的事，你也许会浪费很多时间感到生气，而且会想 报仇。可是这样做又能如何呢？这不能改变任何事情的外在，只会带给你超多的焦虑 罢了。如果你可以把近来的难过情绪转化为更有爱且更有启发性的想法，那你就可以 让事情为了你自己而有转圜的余地。或许是这段关系会成长得更稳固，也可能是有些 美好的成果会从中迸发出来，所以不妨这样思考看看吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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