Someone may be implying that you always get a bit defensive when a certain topic comes up in conversation - perhaps about a relationship. If you think about it, dear Scorpio, you may discover that it's true. But why? Could it be that you have some unresolved guilt over the way a situation developed? You don't want to accept the blame, but then again, if you do, you can then find a way to make the situation better. Confront those feelings you have - including the defensiveness - and you will find a way to turn things around. 有人也许会暗示你总是在聊到某个特定的话题的时候，防御心会变得有点重—或许是 跟伴侣关系有关的议题。如果你仔细思考看看，亲爱的天蠍，你可能会发现这是真的。 但为什麽会这样呢？是不是因为你对某个发展至今的情况，有着悬而未决的愧疚感？ 你不想接受他人对你这样批评，可是如果你接受了，你就可以找出方法改善这个情况。 正视自己的那些感受—包括防备心—然後你将会想出办法来扭转局面。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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