You tend to be very private and secretive, dear Scorpio, so you are sometimes reluctant to ask others to open up for fear of them asking the same of you. But there really is only one way to know for sure what someone is thinking right now - and that is to ask them directly. Yes, they may expect you to relate to them in the same way. That is a risk. But what do you have to lose by revealing some small aspect of what you are thinking now if it can help you to honestly engage on an issue that matters to you? Don't be afraid to go there. 你很容易重视隐私和神神秘秘的，亲爱的天蠍，所以你有时候不愿意要求其他人敞开 心房，因为你害怕他们也会同样要求你。不过真的只有一种方式可以知道一个人现在 在想什麽——那就是直接问。是的，他们也许会期待你用同样的方式跟他们产生连结， 那是一种风险，但是如果这可以帮助你诚实地参与一件对你来说很重要的事，那麽稍 微透漏一部份的自己又不会怎样。别害怕，就去做吧。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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