Winning and losing are two sides of the same coin in a way, Scorpio. To win, one has to risk losing. To lose, one would have attempted to win. There is never any shame in trying, though, and that's what you have to focus on now. You may be afraid to step out into the spotlight and aim for a big goal. If you aim high and win, it will feel spectacular. But if you aim high and lose, it could be very disappointing if you do not succeed. But no attempt is a failure because you tried. And what's more, you gained experience for the next attempt. 输赢是一体两面，天蠍。如果其中一个人想赢，那另一个人就必须输。如果有人想输， 那另一个人就会想要赢。尝试从来就不是一件会让人感到羞愧的事，而那正是你现在 必须专注思考的事。你也许会害怕跨出那一步，站在镁光灯下，致力於远大的目标。 如果你有野心并且成功了，那种感觉超棒的。可是如果你有野心却失败了，那会让你 非常失望。但是因为你试过了，那就不算失败。除此之外，你下一次想尝试的时候， 你还从这次获得了一些经验。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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