You can't inspire someone to do better by belittling them. You are someone who understands this, Scorpio, but not everyone does. There are people out there who believe that harsh words and pointed criticism will get someone to do their best, but for many people, it might actually make them so self-conscious that they can't do anything close to average, not to mention their best. The same goes for the way you inspire yourself. If you have been critical of something you accomplished, praise yourself for your efforts and inspire yourself by reflecting on your many wonderful talents. Motivate yourself positively. 你不能用贬低他人的方式来鼓励一个人，你懂这个道理，天蠍，但不是每个人都懂， 有人相信严厉的话语和针对性的批判会让一个人表现出最好的那一面，可是对很多人 来说，这也许只会让他们觉得自己没办法做到像一般人的水准，更何况是做到最好。 同理可证，如果你要鼓励自己的话也是如此。如果你一直批判自己做过的某件事，藉 由认真思考自己那既美好又丰富的才华来赞扬自己的努力和付出吧，要用积极正面的 方式激励自己。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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