You may be working on self-improvement now, Scorpio. But no matter what area of your life this falls into, you are always rather hard on yourself. You try, but you may feel that you aren't getting to where you want to be fast enough, or that your efforts are not good enough. But self-improvement can often be a very slow process because you are trying to change something that has been done in a certain way for a long time - maybe for as long as you can remember. Keep striving for what you want, but without the harsh inner critic. 你可能正在努力让自己变得更好，天蠍，但是不管你在努力的是人生的哪一个层面， 你总是对自己相当严格。你试过了，不过你也许会觉得自己速度不够快，或是你的努 力还不够好。可是让自己变得更好经常是个非常缓慢的过程，因为你正试着改变的是 已经用固定模式行之有年的东西─或许是从你有记忆以来就一直是那样的模式。继续 奋斗，努力争取你想要的东西吧，但是不要对自己太严厉、太挑剔。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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