When you toil away taking care of responsibilities and obligations, and you don't spare any time for yourself personally, it can eventually become a routine that secludes you. You may do less socializing, or none at all, devoting all of your time and energy to getting the job done. You may have been in that mode for a while, Scorpio, so it has become the norm for you. But you need to break out of that groove and start allowing yourself to explore, to discover, to socialize, and to free yourself from so many burdens. This week, you may have multiple chances to get out and about through social activities, learning experiences, and purely joyful excursions where you can be carefree and have some fun. Be sure to do that for yourself as often as you desire. A little bit of nudging may be all that it takes to get someone to come through on a promise that keeps getting put off. Just be sure that you are gentle and encouraging, rather than frustrated and angry. Remember the adage, "You can attract more flies with honey than with vinegar." 当你辛劳地承担起责任和义务，而你没有为自己留任何私人的时间，那些责任跟义务 最终会变成让你与世隔绝的例行公事。你可能会越来越少社交，或者甚至是完全不社 交，奉献所有的时间跟精力来完成你的工作。或许你已经处於这种模式好一阵子了， 天蠍，所以这已经成为你的常态。但是你必须打破那个习惯，开始让自己探索、发现 和社交，并且让自己卸下许许多多的重担。 本周，你也许会有很多机会跳脱出那个旧有的模式，并且参与社交活动、学习的课程， 以及纯真快乐的小旅行，让你可以无忧无虑、玩得开心。务必要确保你是为了自己而 那样做，只要你想做就去做。 你可能只需要稍微点一下，就能让某个人不再拖延，给出承诺。只要确定你的态度是 温和且鼓舞人心，而不是沮丧和生气就好。记住这句俗谚：「花若盛开，蝴蝶自来； 你若精彩，天自安排。」 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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