You have probably been told at various times throughout your life that it is always better to be kind than to be harsh if you want someone to do something you want or agree with you on something. But sometimes you have to be candid with someone, even if it does seem a bit harsh. You may have been killing someone with kindness in an effort to get them on your side. But there are facts that must be shared to convey the true reality of the situation. Don't be afraid to be straightforward, Scorpio. 或许终其一生都会有人一而再、再而三地告诉你，如果你想要某个人做或同意某件事， 那麽用和善的态度总是比较好的做法。可是有时候你必须对某个人坦率一点，就算这 样做似乎会有一点严厉也一样。也许你已经尽力宠溺某个人，企图让他站在你这边， 不过事实是有必要表达这个情况的真相，别害怕直言不讳，天蠍。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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