As adults, bullies may look a lot different than what they did as children. A bully can be a co-worker, a neighbor, or someone in some position of authority in our lives. When you are treated disrespectfully by a bully, you can stand up to them and treat them in the same way they are treating you since this is often the only way they will back off. Or, you can turn the other cheek and walk away. If your choice of how to deal with someone's bullying is criticized by your allies, Scorpio, don't let it affect you. You have to do what's best for you, and only you know what that is. 大人世界的恶霸可能跟小孩子的恶霸非常不同，这个恶霸也许是同事、邻居或是我们 生活中具有某种权威地位的人，当你被恶霸无理、不尊重地对待的时候，你可以站起 来为自己发声，并且以牙还牙，因为这通常是唯一一种让他们退让的方式。或者你可 以打不还手、骂不还口，然後三十六计，走为上策。如果支持你的人批评你选择处理 某个人霸凌你的方式，天蠍，别让他们影响你。你必须做对自己最好的事，而只有你 知道什麽才是对自己最好的事。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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