The best arguments do not involve a lot of shouting, name-calling, or the goal of proving someone wrong and yourself right. A good argument is fair, honest and respectful, and it should lead to a conclusion where the truth is validated without pointing the finger at anyone. You may be involved in some sort of a conflict with someone now who may be particularly disagreeable. You may think that shouting and all of above is the only way to deal with it. But if you follow the guidelines for a healthy argument, the truth will inevitably rise to the surface. 最好的争吵并不包括吼叫、指名道姓，或证明别人是错的你是对的。一个好的争论是公平 、诚实且互相尊重的，同时争吵後能达成结论，不须透过指责谁的过错来辨明真相。你可 能涉入某种冲突，然而吵架的另一方似乎特别的令人讨厌。你可能认为就是得怒吼或透过 上述方法才能解决问题，但如果你采行指引来进行较健康的争论，那真相必将浮现、不证 自明。 -- 有时候冲突能帮助厘清一些事情、解决问题 伤了和气又坏了关系就很可惜 --

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