The ability to know when to say no, and to actually say no when you should, is an important component of happiness and well-being. When you go further than you should - whether it's to help someone else or to reach for something you want - feeling depleted can work against you, drain your energy, and cause you to have a dark outlook. You may be thinking about taking something on now, Scorpio, but if you have apprehension about it, listen to that little voice in the back of your mind. Say no, even if it means just putting it off, if that's what you need to do. 知道什麽时候该拒绝，以及应该拒绝的时候真的说出来，这其实是一种能力，也是影 响身心健康的重要因素。当你做得太多—不论是帮助别人或是抓住你想要的东西—那 你会被空虚的感觉吞噬、不断消耗自己的精力、并且让你看起来有如槁木死灰。你现 在可能要着手准备某件事，天蠍，可是如果你很担心的话，那就听听自己内心深处的 声音。不想做的话就拒绝，如果这是你必须拒绝的，那麽就算这只是暂时搁置也一样 要拒绝。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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